A 5 year old in my class died. She had been ill for several years. Her death happened over half-term. On the day we returned my head teacher came to say that a woman had turned up to council us because she had ‘done the course.’ I said that I would be leading the session as my class and I had actually known the little girl. We sat in a circle and shared our memories of our friend and classmate. We laughed together. We cried together. None of us had ‘done the course.’