I wish I had seen this before my grandparents died. One quick story. At my grandad’s funeral (same crematorium for all grandparents) everything that could go wrong did……Phones going off during the ceremony, my stepmother farting during the prayers and the brochure of the radiator on the way into the crematorium. But………it was the most honest and open we had been with each other and in a way the things going wrong helped smash through the awkwardness of the occasion.
