Stories from: Conquest Theatre, Bromyard
I Felt Her Weight
My friend was dying in hospital. I’d been with her for the last few weeks of her life, had travelled
Read moreWe All Colluded
My brother died at one week old, I was almost 3. It was never spoken about, his name never uttered
Read moreNo Space For It
I went to a funeral of a childhood friend. He died aged 37 – a couple of months after a
Read moreInto the Dirt
My friend died, by suicide. Laid down in the woods and took an overdose. Her funeral was strange, it didn’t
Read moreStuffed to the Gunnels
One great story from an attendee of a Death Cafe – her aunt had always said – if you get
Read moreDidn’t Feel Empowered
Even though I have facilitated a Death Cafe for four years and learnt so much while I cared for my
Read moreBin Lorry
A friend’s father said when he died they could put him in a bin bag and leave him out with
Read moreAnglican Priest
I totally agree with you about reclaiming the funeral process from the undertakers and orthodoxy of doing the right thing.
Read moreRules and Regulations
We scattered our mum and dad’s ashes in the local church yard where they got married as was their wish,
Read moreKept His Wish
The fear of death is twofold: the unknown and not wanting to be there when it happens. The loss is
Read moreEntirely Appropriate
My father was a merchant marine engineer born in Hull (1895). We went to scatter his ashes at the centre
Read moreWoollen Coffin
Lilian always felt cold so we chose a woollen coffin for her to be “cosy” in.
Read moreBootfulls of Ashes
My mum and dad were climbers. When Mum died in 1985 she requested her ashes be scattered from Stanage Edge
Read moreNo Drama
With an Advance Care Plan, a DNACPR and Power of Attorney in place, I had to be firm with the
Read moreMostly in Silence
We went to the funeral of an uncle – it was in a field quite a walk (three miles) from
Read moreAt Last!
Dad, a fifth generation family funeral director, made no reference in his will or any other documentation to his death,
Read moreBegan to Accept
A man devoted to his wife, his second marriage and an acrimonious relationships with her kids. She was dying and
Read moreUnable to Intercept
People assume professionals are always confident in any situation. Not so. I had a lady expire suddenly so we took
Read moreInto His Soup
Working in a dementia unit we had a gentleman collapse at tea time and fall face down dead into his
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